Arcanum 6, The Lovers in the Matrix of Destiny

Sixth among the Major Arcana, Lovers represent love in a global sense, deep emotions and choice. People with this energy are charming, emotional and capable of choices inspired by love. They can convey empathy, love and joy, having access to creativity, passion and the desire for connection. They are lovers of art and beauty, extremely warm and welcoming, and have a positive effect on other people.

Terms of The Lovers

Positively

• Love for everything. Everything you do in this life should be done out of love. Don't look for benefits, don't use logic, don't think that later you will fall in love: the heart is your most accurate counselor. Look for a loved one, an educational institution, a job, a car, etc. And the first thing you must learn to do is to learn to love yourself and through yourself the rest of the world.
• Right choice. It is not difficult to guess that the destiny will constantly present you with the choice of who to listen to: your mind or your heart. In some cases the choice will be easy, in others not. However, if you make a decision from a state of love, you will never make a mistake.
• Charm and excitement. You are a very charming person and others always like you. You know how to please, can carry on any conversation and are always cheerful and friendly. You sense others well and convey your emotions.
• Friendly. You are very friendly; you have many friends and acquaintances. It is important to you to be accepted by those around you, which is why you never argue with anyone. You know how to reconcile friends and smooth out conflict situations.
• Appreciate the beauty. Like many emotional people, you have a highly developed understanding of beauty. You look good, dress tastefully and appreciate art. You are quite artistic and are easily transformed into the desired image.
• Cozy host. You really love the holiday atmosphere, so you gladly receive guests at your home and love to visit others. You like to organize festive events and sometimes even make it your profession.

Negatively

How to bring energy into positive

• Open yourself to communication by working on the reasons why you avoid people. Strive to open up more to others and prioritize relationships.
• Work on your self-esteem because those who have little tend to alienate others by behaving insecurely.
• If you are not ready for intimacy, be honest. Sex involves physical, emotional and spiritual union.
• If you struggle to open up, seek help from a psychotherapist to overcome thoughts and feelings that lead you to push others away.
• Be firm and don't be afraid of hard choices. Often just listening to yourself, meditation techniques can help.
• Think positive and focus on the beautiful aspects of life. Go forward without fear of making mistakes. Many mistakes can be corrected and teach something.
• Hang out with optimistic people whose good humor conveys positivity. You will learn to see the positive side in everything.
• Accept yourself without aspiring to unattainable ideals. Love who you really are. Stop feeling victimized, assert your space and learn to forgive.
• Look at people's souls, not at appearances, which can be deceiving. Observe their values and inner world. Do not mock anyone and avoid harsh criticism.
• Plan expenditures making a shopping list and avoids purchases dictated by emotions or to boost morale.
• Love yourself by taking care of your body and health. Don't be discouraged. Cultivate your interests and take care of your appearance.
• Make your home cozy with beautiful and comfortable things. It creates a warm and safe environment for your emotional well-being.