Sexual line in the Matrix of Destiny: how to calculate it

In the Matrix of Destiny, next to the central fulcrum, there is a very distinctive line: sexual line (o the line of sexuality).
This line, it's like a karmic tail (without debt though), which explains your sexuality in general.
It's a very complex concept, and sometimes, you might not find yourself in what you read: in fact, you go deeper, into the Shadow and the Person, getting to the Jungian archetypes.

These are the possible definitions of the numbers on the sexuality line:

• 7-5-12: Gentle Lovers
• 12-6-18: Seekers of Perfection
• 11-4-15: Vengeful Dominators
• 6-12-18: Disillusioned Cynics
• 10-11-21: Rebel Servants
• 5-10-15: Forbidden Dreamers
• 4-8-12: Possessive Castigators
• 11-13-6: Detached Lovers
• 7-14-21: Versatile Lovers
• 8-7-15: Vulnerable Rebels
• 3-6-9: Masked Provocateurs
• 6-3-9: Magnetic Seducers
• 9-9-18: Nostalgic of the Past
• 22-8-3: Shifting Explorers
• 14-10-6: Unsatisfied Romantics
• 16-5-21: Devoted Servants
• 13-8-21: Lovers of Contrasts
• 20-4-6: Extreme Lovers
• 11-22-6: Idealistic Revolutionaries

7-5-12: Gentle Lovers

For these people, sex is a manifestation of love and an indicator of their partner's feelings. They want to be at the center of each other's lives and need constant confirmation that they are loved and appreciated. Their self-esteem depends a lot on how they are treated, so they remain insecure despite reassurance. Over time they move from a more dominant to a more submissive attitude, wanting to please their partner in everything. Swapping roles between domination and submission can benefit intimacy and mutual understanding.

12-6-18: Seekers of Perfection

These people tend to repeat the same pattern in every relationship: initially they try to appear perfect in their partner's eyes, going along with his every request. Then, however, they purposely start looking for flaws in the other person in order to allow themselves to "pull down the mask" and behave as they really want, even in a selfish or cruel way. The partner often does not understand this sudden change and feels guilty. It is important for the person with this combination to take responsibility for his or her actions without blaming the other person.

11-4-15: Avenging Dominators

In this case, there is intense pleasure in punishing and subduing one's partner, often deliberately choosing people who appear somehow "guilty" or transgressive. The excitement comes from being able to dominate someone who is in a position of disadvantage and vulnerability. One's own desires and fantasies always take priority, even at the cost of forcing the other into practices he or she finds unacceptable or degrading. The solution may be to find a partner who likes to be submissive, establishing clear shared boundaries.

6-12-18: Disillusioned Cynics

These people have many relationships behind them and feel deeply disappointed and disenchanted with their experiences. By now they are convinced that no one can surprise or truly satisfy them anymore. They have unrealistic expectations of partners and tend to quickly discard them as soon as they notice a flaw, leaving them frustrated and lonely. They demand total and unconditional acceptance, but struggle to build genuine understanding. Actually, the solution would be to show more flexibility and openness to get to know the current person thoroughly, instead of remaining anchored in the past.

10-11-21: Rebel Servants

This combination presents one of the most complex and ambivalent relationship dynamics. On the one hand, there is a very strong and nonconformist personality, and on the other a complete annihilation of self in the role of a devoted servant. One chooses a "different" and transgressive partner, considered unique and special, before whom one prostrates oneself with devotion, fulfilling his or her every wish, even very unusual ones. What matters is to feel that one is the only one who can totally understand and accept the other's uniqueness, in an "us versus the world" bond. Sex becomes the realm in which to demonstrate this submission.

5-10-15: Forbidden Dreamers

In daily life one maintains a very controlled and blameless image, avoiding any hint of "dirt" either physical or moral. But in intimacy one wishes to explore all that is forbidden, obscene, disgusting. Transgressive and "indecent" sex should be done strictly outside the home. One may go so far as to cheat on one's official partner in order to fulfill one's unmentionable fantasies, while with him/her one maintains a more chaste and aseptic appearance. To be truly in harmony with oneself one should find appropriate and consensual ways to give space to one's "dirty" erotic side, without splitting.

4-8-12: Possessive Castigators

For these people, the partner represents a possession of which to be morbidly jealous. Even the slightest sign of possible betrayal, real or imagined, triggers violent rage and the desire to punish the other person by humiliating and sexually subduing him or her. The sadistic impulse is actually always latent and almost "desired" in order to have a pretext to manifest itself. This dynamic tends to remain unconscious until it explodes into aggressive behavior. It is important to bring it to light, accept it and channel it into "severe" but safe and consensual erotic practices.

11-13-6: Detached Lovers

To avoid further pain, these people defend themselves by holding a very cold and detached attitude with their partner, avoiding revealing their feelings. They pull away as soon as the other person becomes too affectionate or seeks emotional involvement. They are incapable of pursuing lasting, deep relationships; they constantly go in search of encounters based only on physical attraction. The ideal for them would be an equally independent partner with whom they can share exclusively passionate moments, focusing only on the pleasure of bodies and not on inner connection.

7-14-21: Versatile Lovers

These people are extremely fickle, moving with ease from one opposite to the other in character and behavior: from gentleness to cruelty, from passivity to absolute domination, from romanticism to raw eroticism. In sex this translates into alternating moments of tenderness with others of absolute depravity. For them it is a very exciting game in which to constantly unsettle their partner. They take advantage of the surprise effect by initially presenting themselves in a manner opposite to how they really are, and then revealing themselves in all their disruptive sensuality. The right person will be someone who appreciates and supports this multifaceted nature with complicity.

8-7-15: Vulnerable Rebels

This type of person has a very strong and rebellious image, but in reality he or she is extremely vulnerable and insecure, especially with regard to sexual self-esteem. All it takes is a small gesture or a word of criticism from a partner to collapse his or her defenses and trigger a violent reaction of anger and aggression, as if to "get back at" the other person.

In this their true nature, tender and frightened, is revealed. Provocations, especially when aimed at belittling their erotic capabilities, have enormous power over them, becoming almost a challenge to prove otherwise. The greatest excitement comes from the most extreme and exaggerated situations. With a highly trusted partner, role-playing that precisely stages a verbal and physical "confrontation" in which they can express these opposites can be very liberating.

3-6-9: Masked Provocateurs

For these people, eroticism is a game of mirrors and contrasts between the image they present to others and the image they reveal in intimacy. They may assume a very provocative look with skimpy clothes, but then be extremely chaste in sexual behavior. Or conversely have a composed and morose appearance, and then indulge in the wildest fantasies between the sheets. The arousal lies not so much in the acts, but in the shock effect of the reversal. This mechanism serves to select partners who are really interested in discovering their true selves, beyond appearances. With the right person they can really express their whole deep nature.

6-3-9: Magnetic Seducers

These people have a magnetic and irresistible charm that is almost impossible to escape. They know exactly how to behave in order to attract each other, skillfully dosing seductive attitudes and more aloof ones to create suspense and keep erotic tension high. They love to play "cat and mouse," hinting at much but conceding little, then surprising with breathtaking twists and turns.

Ambiguity is their trump card: they can nonchalantly switch from being angelic and pure to embodying the worst vices and perversions. It is precisely this never knowing what to expect that makes them so exciting and desirable. The downside is that they tend to collect conquests without ever really committing. Only a partner who knows how to keep them on their toes, constantly piquing their curiosity, will be able to prevail in this power game and win their unconditional surrender.

9-9-18: Nostalgic of the Past.

These people always tend to choose and evaluate new partners on the basis of similarity to the previous one to whom they were very close. They constantly try to replicate the positive feelings of the past, and become disappointed and dissatisfied if the other fails to meet certain specific demands based on their memories. In severe cases, they keep contacting the ex to relive those lost moments of intimacy. It is crucial that they learn to process the old bonds in order to build an authentic relationship with the person they have next to them in the present.

22-8-3: Shifting Explorers

The primary need of those with this combination is to continually experience different situations and partners. With this premise they can hardly conceive of a stable, monogamous relationship. Changes must be radical: they go from people at the antipodes in appearance, character, background. What matters is the novelty of the feelings each of them can give. If they meet a soul mate with whom they would like to build a lasting relationship, they must find the courage to clearly externalize this need for variety, so that together they can find creative ways to satisfy it without having to cheat.

14-10-6: Unsatisfied Romantics

These people place tremendous value on all aspects of preparation and side dish to the sexual act, from candlelight dinner to lacy lingerie, taking care of every detail to create the perfect atmosphere. All their excitement and energy is focused at this stage. Often, however, the actual intercourse ends up disappointing their very high expectations and ending too quickly, leaving them with a bitter taste in their mouth. Sometimes then they prefer to "sublimate" desire by devoting themselves body and soul to these rituals, deriving more satisfaction from them than from sex. To experience intimacy in a complete and fulfilling way, they need to find a partner with whom they can develop a comprehensive erotic understanding that equally values foreplay, time of intercourse, and post-orgasm moments.

16-5-21: Devoted Servants

Those with these numbers tend to bind themselves for life to a single partner to be loved absolutely and unconditionally. In the relationship he completely annihilates himself, putting the other on a pedestal and devoting himself body and soul to his pleasure and needs, even at the expense of his own. Especially in the sexual sphere he feels a sense of completeness in giving himself totally. Without a person to "serve" in this way he literally feels lost. It is crucial, however, that the partner appreciates and reciprocates this gift of self with equal dedication, never taking it for granted or taking advantage of it.

13-8-21: Lovers of Contrasts

These people experience love and sex as swinging opposites in constant oscillation: moments of almost maternal tenderness alternate with others of aggression and sadism, languid cuddling with scratching and biting. They experience arousal in feeling both sensations simultaneously, so much so that each caress already carries within it the germ of its violent reverse.

They need to experience this polarity on all planes: visual (provocative/chastened clothes), olfactory (sweet/spicy scents), tactile (caressing/sculping). Sometimes unconsciously they try to recreate the same "bipolar" dynamic in daily couple life as well, moving from effusions to jealous outbursts. Only a partner who can play along and indeed creatively nurture this dance of contrasts can make them feel totally loved, accepted and fulfilled.

20-4-6: Extreme Lovers

This type of lover tends to always put his own needs and desires first, even at the expense of his partner's pleasure or will, which is sometimes overlooked. He may reach out in fits of anger and aggression (never gratuitous but always as a reaction to a provocation or wrong suffered). Reaches maximum arousal only in extreme and forbidden situations, where intercourse involves some form of risk, challenge, transgression of social boundaries or personal safety.

Having sex in public or dangerous places, experimenting with borderline practices, indulging only when he can't take it anymore: only then does he feel truly alive and fulfilled. The key to living this passionate charge in a healthy way is to learn to control and channel it, finding a partner who can stand up to him but also teach him the value of self-control and reciprocity in giving and receiving pleasure.

11-22-6: Idealistic Revolutionaries

These people experience sexuality as a force for change and liberation, almost a spiritual mission. They believe strongly in the transformative power of love and sex to elevate human consciousness. They tend to reject social conventions and experiment with alternative practices and relationships, often being judged too extreme or eccentric. But all that matters to them is following their own ideals of freedom and authenticity. The ideal partner is someone who shares the same revolutionary vision and desire to explore new frontiers of intimacy and deep connection, beyond all taboos.