16th among the Major Arcana, The role of the Tower represents resilience, restoration and steadfastness. People with this energy are confident, energetic and reliable. They can easily rebuild themselves under the influence of unforeseen circumstances and are always ready to help others. They possess a logical and structured mind, and are able to face challenges with courage. They have access to great inner energy and are able to adapt quickly to changes.
Conditions of La Torre
Positively
- Challenges and changes. Many important things happen in your life, sometimes you win and sometimes you lose, sometimes you are happy and sometimes you have problems. But you are not afraid of change; you have been used to it for a long time. You see new things as a possibility, not as a danger. You yourself often make big changes happen in your life.
- Fixing things. When things go wrong, either in your body or in your things, you recover quickly. Because you are good at thinking, you can easily fix any problem. You can build new things or break old ones.
- Being strong and stable. You are usually a healthy and strong person, both in body and mind. You enjoy doing many things. You believe in yourself and your ideas, you endure difficult things in life well, and you never give up in the face of problems.
- Helping others. You are a friend who can always be counted on, you are always ready to help. With a good deed or wise advice, you can get anyone out of trouble. Your family feels safe with you, as if you were a stone wall protecting them.
- Having a lot of energy. Although you sometimes seem slow and clumsy, inside you have great strength and a lot of energy. You can't sit still; you always find something to do. When things get tough, you give your best.
Negatively
- Disappointed hopes and bad surprises. When things go wrong, sometimes you buckle under the weight of problems and "break down." Maybe you fight so hard to achieve something important, but when you succeed you are disappointed. You feel very sad and feel like everything is falling apart. Depending on how bad it is, you may remain confused and down in the dumps for a few days or even for years.
- Fear and closure. You have a tremendous fear of change and close yourself off from anything that might change your life and your habits. So you build a "wall" around you and block any chance to grow. You stop talking to others and don't listen to those who need you.
- Breaking things down. When you are sick, instead of fixing things you break them. Everything you touch falls apart under the weight of problems. Sometimes you put so much effort into destroying, and you don't even know why you do it.
- Being vain and believing himself to be the best. After a few successes, you may become vain and start believing yourself to be better and more capable than you really are. So when the next challenge comes, you can't handle the pressure and fail, with all the bad consequences.
- Family quarrels. You often become overbearing and aggressive, especially with your family. You start fighting with your partner, and your children try to leave as soon as possible when they grow up. When things get really bad, you can do desperate and mean things, and eventually you are left alone.
How to bring energy into positive
- Appreciate the experience by considering disappointments an opportunity to free yourself from unnecessary ties. The future always brings something new. Make plans considering past mistakes and foresee solutions to problems.
- Don't focus on the negative. Banish sad thoughts with stimulating activities that improve mood.
- Keep your spirits up even in hard times by looking ahead. Evaluates situations from the height of acquired experience and wisdom.
- Find joy in the everyday by looking for the good in what you experience. If the changes were unexpected, try to turn them to your advantage.
- Be methodical by proceeding one step at a time. Accomplish desires steadily, without rushing to change everything at once.
- Draw from your experience. It will help you deal with the unexpected.
- Learn to say "stop". When strong emotions emerge, first stop.
- Cultivate humility. It is the only way to keep ego at bay and overcome pride. Recognize your imperfections and limitations in the face of circumstances.
- Dialogue more by listening to the views of others. You will understand that everyone is an individual with their own rights and beliefs.
- Nurture the relationship with the partner by keeping attunement alive. Talk to each other often, take an interest in each other's lives.
- Plan for the future without rigidity. It is important to be able to adapt to change with flexibility.
- Appreciate what you have: friendship, love, work, home. Everything that makes up your life has value. Look for the bright side in every day.
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